Friday, December 28, 2007

After the holidaze


It's over,Christmas is over, I have two large trash bags full of just wrapping paper!It was amazing and exhausting,do I find it depressing? No!
I'm a little baffled by the post holiday Christmas blues, but that's said more out have never experiencing it, then incredulous outrage at the thought.

Our family gatherings were split and separate this year, His family on Christmas Eve, mine the day after Christmas, and Christmas we spent at his sister's, lots of fun, lots of good food,and a nice pinot noir.

I served a spinach lasagna, and italian meatballs, and garlic bread, plus a table full of things to munch on; nuts, cheeses,chocolate graham bunnies. On Christmas Eve we tracked Santa via NORAD ,yes that's right, Virginia... NORAD! Who knew that the North American Aerospace Defense Command, also kept track of Santa. If you've ever believed in St.Nick, or have kids that believe in him,this is a lot of fun, especially if you have a partner to view it with, like say my 4 year old nephew, who was so happy and excited, and dropped the greeting" Feliz Navidad", often.
I received some really nice presents, a blooming Christmas cactus was one of them, and one of those easy to use corkscrews, no more pieces of cork to spit out.

On Christmas day we opened our presents, My husband still thinks I wear post earrings, which i haven't in a decade, luckily no feelings were hurt. I find with work , and having to wear a mask that posts get caught, or torn out, and french wires, may be removed just as easy, but no one looses an earlobe over it.
I received a great iPod docking receiver, my son and I both own iPods, and we can put either one in it, it'll be nice for up in my home studio. To crank those playlists.We also had our annual cinnamon rolls. Don't be too impressed , they are the Pillsbury kind, that come with the little can of frosting, but they're a fun Christmas memory.Then in the afternoon, we went to his Sister's house, she had some good food, and snacks to nibble one, the pinot noir was flowing. It was another relaxed day, plus we had turkey.

On the 26th, my family came with lots of presents in hand,see above photo, my mother is a force to be reckoned with, and she buys everything you want and then some. My sister too, and myself we have learned well from my mother. It was kind of cool to see the amount of gifts, but oy! all that paper. We also got to meet Zoey the littlest puppy, too cute and fun, and my dog Wilma didn't mind her much, though when she got too close to her when she was eating, she gave her a growling little smile, that put the puppy in it's place. Of course there were also dog gifts as well as people gifts, Wilma received a squeaky raccoon, and Zoey received a squeaky pheasant, which was as big as her, but she attacked and gnawed at it happily.We had ( in the house that night, but it was a lot of fun.

And yesterday, finally it was over.
The tree is still up, and will stay up until New Year's Eve, I'll take it down on New Years Day, it's a safe activity, if you've had some fun, maybe too much fun on New Year's Eve.
All in all it was a very nice holiday.

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

happy holidaze


Have yourself a Merry little Christmas.

Saturday, December 22, 2007

zoey


zoey, originally uploaded by ms.Tea.

this is my sister's puppy, zoey. this picture was also taken by my sister, I merely enhanced it a little.
Isn't she too damn cute!

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

christmas music

There is a lovely group at Flickr, called my Monday music advice. I try to post to it, but sometimes I forget and miss my Monday post.
I guess when that occurs and I need a subject to write about , it'll be my Wednesday music advice, but I'll post it here.

So lets get down to it.

Christmas music can either numb you, with bland Muzk, where you're not exactly sure, what the song is because it sounds the same,as the one before.
Or it can fill your heart, bringing back good Christmas memories, the same way really food can.
Here are my recommendations for the Christmas season:

1."Christmas around the world" by Putamayo
this collection covers all the bases from"Joyuex Noel", to "White Christmas", to a wonderful Cuban influenced version of "Deck the Halls", and a awesome Cajun version of St. Nicholas. Everyone will like this from your Gram to your gothed out niece. It's just that good. People will be toe tapping and enjoying Christmas time traditionals, and you'll put this CD on the carousel, and play it for hours.Think of it as an international retelling of songs that you already now.We may all celebrate the holidays differently , but there are some things that unify us, and music is definitely one of those things, and this CD presents that beautifully.



2."Jazz to the World"
This jazz collection is great a wonderful glimpse at how well Jazz can enhance old Christmas standards, my favorite is a version of "Baby, it's cold outside" with Dianne Reeves and Lou Rawls, when ever I hear this song, it makes me want to look out the window and see the snow falling fast and heavy, plus it very playful, and flirty. Another favorite would be "Il est Ne, Le Divin Enfant" by Dr. John, this bluesy New Orleans based version is fun, and down and dirty, just like the holidays can be especially if you have that extra glass of pinot noir. I also want to curl up under my Christmas tree and listen to only Diana Krall singing "Have Yourself a Merry little Christmas", her version it's just sublime. Another favorite that'll make you stay there is Michael Franks version of "Let it Snow! Let it Snow!"



3.A Very Special Christmas 3
This is the third in the series of A Very Special Christmas Cd's. I own most of them, but this is one I put on often , In this this Cd, some unexpected artists, like the Smashing Pumpkins, and their song "Christmas Time", is beautiful, and timeless. Also Natalie Merchant singing "Children Go Where I Send Thee", maybe the only reason you need to buy this Cd, it's gorgeous rich and gives me the chills, this woman knows how to arrange a tune.
The other unexpected treasure in this collection is "Santa Baby" led by Rev Run and the Christmas All Stars, that include Mase, Puff Daddy, Snoop Doggy Dogg, Salt and Peppa, Onyx and Keith Murray, before you get all, " those are hip hop stars, I don't do hip hop", you need to just listen , and then I'm thinking you won't make that statement again. It has an infectious beat, and isn't it time to listen to another version of this fun song, that might even be a little naughty.Other highlights are Jonny Lang singing "Santa Claus Is back in Town" this is raucous, and flirty and bluesy, and might make you want to start dancing, or have Mommy doing more than kissing Santa Claus, if you know what I mean. (wink wink, nudge nudge)

All and all I hope this music just makes for a happy, stress free holiday for you and yours.

Sunday, December 16, 2007

snow days


Last Thursday ,we had a really good snow storm, well I guess the people that had to drive in it, maybe weren't so thrilled, but I was home it was my day off, and I was psyched!(translation excited.) My son was equally psyched, as he got released early from school, and they had a two hour delay the next day.

Then comes this weekend, and on Saturday night more of the white stuff arrived, except this time I was at work.Was I afraid to drive home in it? No, secretly it thrills me, what was not so thrilling, was that the city I work in and the surrounding towns, hadn't really thought that plowing should be their first prerogative. It was Sunday morning, maybe they hit the snooze one extra time, or had one more cup of the delicious coffee, before they went out and started clearing the roads, or maybe they thought who works on the weekends?

Me, I work on the weekends, and holidays, etc, and if you want me to get to my job safely, and take care of your sick loved one in the hospital, I have to be able to get there. Hospital's are open 24/7 they don't close down on holidays (wouldn't that be nice for me) they don't close on weekends, especially Friday nights, when college students feel the need to do one too many shots, and pass out cold, and then their frightened, but drunk friends, call the ambulance to bring them in. It also doesn't close during a snow storm , for those people that feel they need to climb a ladder to clear, the snow off their roof, and end up clearing themselves off too, into a bank of snow , bruised to a royal purpleness. No we're there to take care of you. How about returning the favor? So my one small request, clear the roads, when it's been snowing for the last 3 hours.

Did I get home that Sunday, of course. It puts another notch in my snow driving belt, I can now sign an affidavit, for the Subaru Forrester people, and tell my funny story how I drove home through mostly unplowed roads, in one of the lower drive gears, I didn't slip or get stuck. I did have some precarious drive and dodge moves where I had to avoid, people that were out in the snow and should not have been, but that'll be another charming post for some other time.

Do I have snow tires for my AWD Subaru, you betcha, but that's because they don't plow much at night either, just like on the weekends. When I had to return to work that night, and the big fat fluffy snow flakes were streaming before me, was I concerned, about the less than perfect visibility, No! Because the roads were plowed perfect, and after my drive in snowy cookie dough that morning, and few thousand snowflakes were nothing.

ps: to you snow plow drivers that were out before I was on the road Sunday morning, Thank you.


Monday, December 10, 2007

enlightened |day 104


enlightened |day 104, originally uploaded by ms.Tea.

"A lovely thing about Christmas is that it's compulsory, like a thunderstorm, and we all go through it together."
-- Garrison Keillor

Sunday, December 09, 2007

my perfect tree


, originally uploaded by ms.Tea.

I know your saying to yourself, "no, i have the perfect Christmas tree", but I'm sorry that's not true. I have the most perfect tree, full of ornaments from the last 20 years.It's perfectly shaped, and fits in the room perfectly.
I'm all about the whimsical ornament, many are from Hallmark, with the little date mark showing. I also have an attraction to painted wooden ornaments.

One year my mother in law was getting rid of some ornaments she didn't want any more. I kept them and gave most of them to my sister, and kept the wooden ones for me. They're the ornaments i hang low on the tree, that are unbreakable. I know that's something my Mom did,but she had a lot of glass ornaments, where I have very few, mostly unbreakable, but i still hang the wooden ornaments at the bottom for the little ones in our family.

This tree is also perfect, because it's little branches can handle all different sized and weighted ornaments.Those little resin figures may seem cute, but they are sold and heavy, and not all trees can handle that.The hard thing with that is, if the branches are going to be strong most likely the needles will be pinprick sharp...and these are. So who ever said you can't put lights on the tree in leather garden gloves?

Lastly the scent, is divine.no matter how hard Yankee Candle may try they can never truly capture this rich pine scent, never.



Friday, December 07, 2007

once upon a time

There was this really cool cat, who first started as Opie (what an insult). Then we renamed him and he became Wyckett.Eventually that was interchanged with Mr. Wyck, to truly indicate what a gentle cat he was, well the birds might have had their own name for him like silent but deadly, it was survival of the fittest and he was practicing Darwinist. He was a very polite cat, he never scratched when he played with you, and loved the outdoors. You knew it was going to be a cold one if Mr. Wyck was snuggling in for the night. His only fault if you could find one was his need to be a bed hog, he never really curled up in a ball when he slept, he slept stretched out and long, like huge cat log in the bed. Initially he shot our waterbed a wary eye, but soon got over that.It was often a place he would sleep when the weather was chilly.

He was the first four legged pet we owned when we bought our house, we had always owned fish before in our apartment, but they for some reason don't really like to be petted.So when we bought a house, the next week, my son and I went to the Auburn Cat Hospital, to adopt a cat. We looked at a couple of yellow cats, one was too fresh, he bopped my son in the head,so he was definitely out. But Mr. Wyck, just waited, purred when he was patted, and we made our decision.The ride home was pretty uneventful, but I believe it was my son's coaxing at his wary meows, that helped him get through the ride.

When we arrived we brought him in the house,where he promptly hid behind the couch, once he came out, we showed him the litter box, from there he explored all aspects of the house, the room we were doing over, the crinkly tarps on the floor.He was able to open doors ,understood the theory of cause and effect, meaning if I push against this door it'll pop open. Which worked well the first night we had him, when he open one door into what was our now living room, and preceded to walk loudly across the tarps, and pop the door on the other side of the room to exit, which until I looked down, and saw his yellow tail, I was sure we had a ghost.

For our goodness of releasing him from the cat hospital we were rewarded with various mice, moles, etc, along our stone porch, as mere tokens of affection, I also sometimes got to share in the bounty in my Vegetable garden when he proceeded to eat a mouse in front of me, I just pretended the skull crunching was another noise , I may have had to hear it but I couldn't watch...ew!

He had developed into quite a character, he loved the snow, was out in all types of weather. He was very good when a few years after that we adopted Wilma our often nervous dog, he held his ground with her, never ran from her, always walked. He made it hugely easily to introduce a cat to a dog, who really wasn't sure she shouldn't maybe chase him. It was when his Zen Master qualities came to light, no matter how crazy the dog ran at him he would be still, which would make Wilma calmer, but also allowed her to sniff him all over. Which later on would leave some cowlick like furrows in his fur, from the intensity of the sniffing, but he never dignified that with anything more then a cat bath, to smooth all those spots back down.

He also wandered our neighborhood. One morning while waiting for the school bus with my son,
we observed him,coming down the hill across the street, stopping and looking both ways before crossing, the busy road, and greeting us from his nighttime journeys. I never feared his safety near the road after that.
Eventually though he must have had some mishap crossing the road, luckily he also had the strength, and size to survive this unidentified hit and run, was it a car, or a motorcycle, or someone unable to see him , going really slow, we will never know. He was missing for a weekend, but showed up on a Sunday night before I left for work with a few scratches on his nose, and either an abscess or a hernia, bulging out of his side, plus he was hungry! Off I went to work leaving instructions, don't let him back out, I'll call the Vet in the morning when I get home.The next day when we brought him, the Vet decided to keep him over night, so he could give him a thorough exam. It turn out once they shaved his belly he was bruised from chest to belly, with two fractured ribs, and a big hernia. With all that he was till healthy, purring, he just was shaved and purple. We waited a week to let the swelling go down then he had surgery, which my husband and my son, did perfect post-op care on him, as I was in London for the first time in my life.They gave him antibiotics, kept him inside, which from what they tell me Mr. Wyck didn't really push the going outside issue. When he finally was able, he never went out the front door again toward the street, it was always out the back toward our own wooded acre.

From there Mr. Wyck lived his life pretty well, there we still a few bird bodies, and he taught our "new little cat", as my husband like to call her still, even though she's not new or little anymore, how to hunt, and she eventually took over as hunter cat , under his cat tutelage.
He lived his years in cat naps, and walks, he still continued to go outdoors often and would roll in the driveway or the snow to great me. He also had taken to sleeping in at night.

I was looking forward to him being a very old cat. In September we noticed he was bony, and looking raggedy around the edges, I hoped he was just showing his age, unfortunately he was and he wasn't the vet told me the kind of belly mass was common in older cats, and once you could feel it there really wasn't much they could do. They never pushed the euthanasia issue, they told me to take him home, and call them if I thought it was too uncomfortable for him. Honestly aside from the recent scruffy old cat look he took on, he still was eating and purring , and going outside until the very end. After finding out his prognosis, my husband and I, and our son, talked about our views on how heroic and how long we should let this progress. We all decided we should do right by Mr.Wyck and not let it get to the point of discomfort for him , we owed him that , being he was a very special cat, and deserved, nothing but that.

I can tell you I was with him until the end, I liked to think it was good ,he departed seeing someone he loved, when we him brought to the Vets for his last visit.
It was quick, and they were so wonderful, with the dignity, they handled putting our Mr. Wyck to sleep, I know the word is euthanize, but until you have to choose to do it, sending a beloved pet to sleep, makes the heart ache a little less horrible ,just a little.

Now it about 3 months , I don't cry much now unless I see the mysterious yellow cat walking around, the neighborhood, and it makes me tear up, oh and there's that one song on my iPod, that has nothing to do with cats, or death, but makes me cry a little too, when I hear it .

I missed him at Thanksgiving as I boiled the turkey neck, he would stay close to home when that was happening, for there was a enough meat on that to make a cat all drooly and purry, and a permanent fixture in the kitchen for a few days.

I also missed him alot today, when it started to snow, and Wilma and I noticed the yellow stranger cat again, walking in the snow, exploring things. I know from just looking at him, that it's not Wyckett, but the view blurs as one tears up, and the shorter cat looks bigger and more sleek, and it tugs a little at those heart strings.Which loosens my eyes into a river of tears and makes me able to write about our Mr. Wyck.Who I like to imagine is enjoying his life up there, amongst the endless serving of turkey and catnip.Stretched out on a warm waterbed.

Wednesday, December 05, 2007

the view



Two things I sometimes do that gets me simple, but wonderful photos.One is take them out the window, when it 15 degrees, and I'm in my jammies.
Two is I also shoot pictures as I drive, before you lecture me, let me explain(rationalize) this behavior.
I shoot with my camera resting on my steering wheel and I slow down of course, and I look through the lcd screen on the back , just like it's a mini windshield, this of course means you have to have a clean windshield, and be okay with driving like an elderly person.
Now if you're elderly and taking offense at this statement, take a deep breathe and relax, I respect your wisdom to know speed kills. But so doesn't going 10 miles under the speed limit, on a sunny day, on dry roads, because all us younger impatient freaks will try and pass you in places we shouldn't. And the passing thing is worse than any speeding could be.

Sunday, December 02, 2007

Why i love craigslist


Or better put, why I love, that my husband loves craigslist. We have had a lot of success with craigslist, two boats, two flat files, Mr. Bowflex. For less than half the original cost, sometimes less than a quarter of the cost. I don't care who you are, but you just can't beat that.
I look at it more out of curiosity, i haven't really found anything, but I love seeing what people are trying to get rid of. But my husband is patient and genius about it and finds really good things. Damn good things.
I am now the proud owner of another flat file, to keep my print making stuff organized and tidy, my papers flat and dust free.plus the fact that is cost was only 2 figures, and not the usual four, is something that makes me truly believe in karma, and ridiculously giddy and happy.
i love my flat file, they look so impressive stacked like that I am 5'4" and my flat file stands at 5'9"!
Perhaps my pair of flatfiles, are my next Secret really organized friend!

Friday, November 30, 2007

the finish line or TGIF


I can't believe I did it! Thirty days of posting daily. I've enjoyed the blogs I've discovered. There are some pretty funny people out there blogging. I thank you for taking the time to make my day start with laughter.

Today was like any other Friday, except I did a few things that have been waiting to get done.
1. I finally planted my narcissus bulbs, supposedly there were 32 bulbs, but there is no way there was, which made me happy.For one the ground wasn't frozen yet, and for two what was I thinking when I thought I'd have time between open studio preparation and a major holiday to be able to plant them. Today I couldn't stand it anymore, I was tired of their little papery taunting bulb faces, silently mocking me, threatening to freeze and rot, so I did it. I planted them , and gave my procrastinating self a kick in the butt.

2.I made my Christmas list out for my mother, so she won't go crazy, because she has no idea what to buy me. I've only been her daughter for 44 years, but I guess I am tres mysterious, and she need help. Which honestly she does, she's a bit like a magpie, and their attraction to shiny things, she often buys me things she just loves, which umm I don't. Does that make me sound ungrateful? I certainly hope not because with a little guidance( catalogs I've marked in sharpie) she's able to decide, and pick out some really cool things. Plus My mother almost always comments on her frugality, because she is Scotch. So for her spending her money to get the right gift is important. And who am I to deny my mother that.

3.I finished my CEU's, continuing education units, that I need to have to be able to renew my nurses license every two years.I need to renew my license in January. Luckily I had 6 already, but I need a total of 15.
Do I work at them over a two year period? Yeah, right. I usually do them in December.
I work part time at as hospital, how come I don't receive a percentage of those hours as a CEUs? My job is ever changing, and growing, but not considered continued education.Either way I'm done

So I guess this last day of NaBloPoMo was all about finishing things that needed to get done.
Congratulations to all of you bloggers out there that NaBlo'd your way throughout this month too.

Thursday, November 29, 2007

the almost finished product

I finished carving the linoleum block (almost) I see a few areas, where I need to adjust a couple things, but mostly I'm psyched it's done. I hope she likes it, and it turned out as she imagined.

It was warmer in the studio today, which was nice. Tomorrow the forecast is windy which will suck for whoever is there, but it won't be me. I'll be snug in my house, doing laundry, and making a christmas list for my mom. Maybe I'll even do a little christmas shopping, dressed in pajamas, with a milky cup of tea. As much as I like traveling back and forth to the studio, I love being home too.

My dog Wilma and my cat Ginger will be psyched.I'll be home to provide them with much needed snacks and head rubs.And more treats, and pinches of catnip, and outties, and then more dog bones.It be a busy day.

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

design


A lovely young woman that I work with is getting married,in December. I missed her bridal shower, because it occurred the same day as Open Studios. I worked with her on last Thursday, when she asked if I could make a table sign, that had to do with Santa and Reindeer, and the North Pole. I was honored.

I think I know the direction I am heading in, I have already drawn the design on the block and even started carving, the only nagging voice I hear is my own inner critic saying "remember she wants simple and elegant." So then it makes me unable to see my design, and whether it's those things.

It also makes me a little freaked to call it a design, maybe I have been watching too much Project Runway, or Tim Gunn's Guide to Style, and feel it's a design, honestly though it's a commissioned piece I am creating. So am also working with what she wants,not necessarily a print I would do,this isn't a gift.

Before you get worried dearest reader, I already gave her a gift. And she loves it.

So tomorrow I will go and carve the rest of the block, and fingers crossed, be able to pull a print to show her what it looks like.Then next week print it. Did I tell you her wedding was on December 23rd? Yeah, it is.

Am I stressed, not really. Just a little bit jumpy,but that passes, then I feel a little sure of myself.Which i much prefer feeling, sure and at peace, gives one a steady hand when carving.

So what I think I'll do is turn in, get some sleep, perhaps dream and look at this with new eyes tomorrow.

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

dinner and a movie

This is a list of some of my favorite movies, and some of the reasons.

"Eat Drink Man Woman" such a wonderful movie, the visuals are superb. It's definitely a dinner and movie recommendation.Meaning you can't watch this movie, and not want to eat at the same time. The cooking scenes are sublime, as is the story.A senior chef lives with his three grown daughters; the middle one finds her future plans affected by unexpected events and the life changes of the other household members.

"The Scent of Green Papaya" this movie, is rich in visuals, and not a lot of dialog, compared to how gorgeous it is to watch. Little things mean a lot in the world of 10-year-old Mui, a girl who's trained to be a house servant in 1950s Vietnam.

"Big Night" This movie, even my husband and my son enjoys. It has a great soundtrack,if you haven't heard of Louis Prima, you need to. The mouth watering scenes of the workings of the restaurant, it's sublime.This is another movie, to get take out and eat and watch.

"Babette's feast" this movie,is another thought provoking movie, and the cooking scenes are equally wonderful.This movie definitely gives you food for thought.

"Chocolat" this movie is wonderful, from beginning until end, the chocolate making is wonderful, and Johnny Depp is in it, need I say more.

"The Wedding Banquet" this movie, is fun and sweet and slice of life, it's about a gay landlord and a female tenant agree to a marriage of convenience,to satisfy his nagging parents, but his parents arrive to visit and things get out of hand.

All of these movies are at Netflix, so get busy and add them to your queue, I think you will enjoy them.

Monday, November 26, 2007

loss for words




I now there isn't much left to November, something to be thankful. But I'll put this under really short post, that's pretty to look at.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

tag, you're IT!

Yes, we have reverted to childhood, it's time to play tag. But blog tag, a much nicer version, it doesn't matter if you can run fast, but trust me you be laughing and out of breath, just like the real thing.

I was tagged by my favorite photo wench, Leslie at a Doggy's life

So here are the rules.
1. Write your meme, then link to the person that tagged you and post the rules on your blog.
So people can know whether to thank you , or curse you.
2. Share 7 random and/or weird things about yourself.
You know the weird random stuff, that you think could make for a interesting blog post, but you were shy to tell about.
3. Tag 7 random people at the end of your post and include links to their blogs.
4. Let each person know that they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their blog.
and do this step wisely,You know who is game to play and who isn't.

7 random and/or weird things about myself.
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1.I like butter and jam on my bagel. I don't like how cold cream cheese is on a hot toasty bagel.I like mine toasted crispy and crunchy, and it better be poppy seed.
2. I am a soap whore, i get all giggly and excited over high end soap, from your shower gels to your facial soaps, I desire them.
3.I don't own a microwave, I reheat things in the oven and on the stove.
4.I love the flavor, of sparkling water, but the carbonation, not so much, so i usually shake them to release as much of it as possible, like I need help in the loud burping department.
5.I like to drive home from work, during snowstorms, there something so quiet, and a little frightening, but empowering, that I can make it home, plus it so freaking beautiful, to witness mother nature, showing off.
(only 2 more ,woot!!)
6.I chipped my front tooth , when i was 7 or 8 years old, I was being chased by my friend and I tripped and fell, and hit our coffee table. I thought I broke all my teeth that day.
7.On my list of famous people I would do it with, if i had the opportunity, and they were equally into me too. For men it would be Billy Crudup, he usually picks some meaty parts and that lanky body, yum. For women hands down it would be Catherine Deneuve, those lips, those eyes,
and the accent, is something, to get hot and bothered for.

And lastly these are the wicked awesome people I tagged, I bet they'll be psyched. (I told you I was from New England)

mrs.G at Derfwad Manor

Mike at CraftGuy's Random Thoughts

Sandy at Sandy's notes

Mimi at the queen says

s'mee at knot in the string

Marie at Whither Thou Creative Spirit

Sheryl at crap-o-rama

I hope you will give these people a visit, they have something interesting to say and see.






Saturday, November 24, 2007

holiday meals


It all went off with out a hitch, I actually remembered everything, the extra stuffing got cooked, the rolls got baked, golden brown and they weren't even burnt.

The turkey came out perfect, my fresh, then frozen, then thawed bird came out perfect, we did it Alton Brown style, which is basically 500 degrees, for 30 minutes, then you drop the temperature of your oven to 350, and you also cover the breast with foil, there is no basting. All I made sure to do was add water to the roasting pan, so the the drippings can make the base of what will be the easiest gravy, ever.

Now I am a baster, I have for years, and when my husband first suggested it, we'd cook it the Alton Brown way, frankly I was resistant.I was cooking this turkey what if it turned out, awful!
It would be my fault not Alton Brown's ,plus that he's a food network star, who wouldn't really feel my agony of defeat. Tom was gentle, with his suggestion, didn't bring it up again, but he planted the seed. I was imagining, "could there be a easy way to make a turkey?
The idea whispered in the back of my head, as I planned my menu, and divvied up the food jobs. It was there a little beacon,present,wanting me to choose.Then I decided today(remember I'm a procrastinator, I'd do it. Thank gawd I came to my senses.

When I was younger, I used to make fairly elaborate meals, lots of steps, which would taste wonderful, but added tons of time onto the process. Now with 20 years of wisdom, under my belt, I realize simple is often better, easier to do, and there was no stress involved, which that in itself is a mean feat to pull off, before friends and family. It may have taken me 2 decades to achieve that, but I'm pretty happy that I have.
But then again, does that mean it took 20 years to get that lesson through my head?
Perhaps, but I can live with that.

Friday, November 23, 2007

the cozy

It's the night before I cook Thanksgiving for my family, and I feel accomplished, I got quite a bit done, I've made two desserts, cooked my turkey neck, to make stock, chopped celery, and onion for the stuffing I'll make, So tomorrow will be fairly stress free. (fingers crossed, here's hoping.)
the house is even clean!

It's all done, and now i can sit, and channel surf a little bit, and I happen upon the movie "the Holiday" the one with kate winslet, jude law, and cameron diaz, and jack black, and last but not least eli wallach. I have seen this before, but i'm pleased to see it now ,with holidays beginning. It fits perfectly with my state of mind which just caps off my work nicely, I can snuggle into the couch enjoy the beautiful scenery, and witty dialog, and escape a little,become a happy little voyeur, in this slice of life. I am Thankful for movies, that I can escape a little, but thoroughly enjoy the gamut of emotions, that this movie supplies, you'll laugh, relate totoally, maybe even get teary, but it's all good, all warm and fuzzy.

There is also the physical aspect of it, the warm safe feeling you get, the cradling of the couch, the soft light that glows in the room, is all part of it, and I can pause my dvr, and dash to the bathroom, only to return to my warm spot and finish the movie,it's quite an indulgence.

The other part of the cozy, is the family part, my Husband and me chopping celery and onion,earlier that evening. Sharing the workload, another thing I am thankful for, that somehow we have evolved into these two people that share, the load. I bless my lucky stars, everyday for that one. It's also my son, who has become this cool funny adult, no longer a boy, and that frankly takes my breath away, that i could have had a hand in that. That's certainly another big, Big, BIG blessing. He just came home from being out with friends, and he comments on the smells, the pie, and how it smells like cheesecake, and how he hope he can keep out of it until tomorrow. That is certainly an empowering thing when your kid loves you and what you cook.

As I write this I hope I have conveyed the cozy to you, or maybe made you totally relate in recognition, of this said phenomena. For what it's worth, it doesn't matter how much you save on Black Friday, it's worthless if you don't have the cozy.

Thursday, November 22, 2007

happy thanksgiving.


a simple post to wish you and yours a Happy Thanksgiving.
here's to Black Friday,tomorrow ...Cheers!

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

guilty pleasures

With out first over indulgence holiday approaching, what better thing to reflect on the guilty pleasures, that I partake in with my DVR.
- America's Next Top Model- i love this show, the Tyraisms, that come forth every week,out of Miss Tyra's mouth, and some of the whack ideas,for photo shoots, that they come up with to challenge these young women, it makes my night. Then later to dish about it with someone, makes it even more fun.

-The Hills- yes, that's right I watch the Hills. It's a perfect little show, a half hour long, I can have my catty, then move on to something else. This show doesn't drag on ,it's short and sweet, just like L.C and Audrina.Rumor has it, that it's scripted, well if it truly is, it won't suffer from the writer's strike.We're talking light and fluffy, and fashionable, people.

-Holmes on Homes- this is a fixer up show from Canadian television, this contractor goes in and fixes up , peoples' nightmare houses. The story is basically the same, really nice decent people,who aren't particularly savvy, in regards to choosing a contractor, or around much to see how the job is progressing until it explodes into lousy workmanship, and higher costs, for them.
Enter Mike Holmes, comes in usually guts their abomination of a house, or garage, or kitchen or addition that their having built, and he and his crew fix it up, he's also not afraid to hire really good plumbers, painters,weeping tile experts, electricians. He always has the scolding lecture, because he has such high standards, it makes him sick, that someone just wouldn't do the best job he could for a client. What I'd like to know is how does he pay for these tear down , build up jobs he does? Compared to This Old House where there's a lot of product placement, and mention of how much things cost, in this show there is none, the other bonus, is how much of a leatherman he looks like, all he need is the proper leather accessories, instead he wears Carhartt overalls, often no shirt, and the gold chain, is just very macho manly, thrown back to the disco era, whatever he gets the job done, and there is a happy ending too.

Last and certainly not least Project Runway!! what can I say,as an artist, it's wonderful to curl up on the couch and see, how someone else creates, between the visuals, and fashion inspired critiques, it's lovely to be a little fly on the wall, a fashionable fly that is, and watch what unfolds.
Tonight's show with Sarah Jessica Parker, I almost died and went to heaven. She could make me turn off the Haley Mill's version of The Parent Trap, and my husband and son can't get me to do that. She was guileless, and cute, and likable, and she was genuinely thrilled and a little bit nervous like a fan, to be on Project Runway.But it all worked out in the end.
I did like Victorya and Kevin's dress with the little racer back vest it was cute, but I was blown away more by the design Sweet P and Elisa created ,as they have such different styles. Though I think Elisa is a freak, she no more myopic with her polymorphic dresses , then Christian is with his fitted, retro jackets. I especially loved when he looked like he was going to strike down all the other judges, because they chose to speak before ms.Sarah Jessica.

So here's to those guilty pleasures, that are calorie free,so we'll have more room for dessert tomorrow.